Thursday, February 14, 2019

A Valentine’s Day Crash Course by Toi Thomas

An English Victorian era Valentine card located in the Museum of London-Wikipedia
Hi there, Toi here. For this special day, I thought I’d share a quick-flash pop-culture lesson about this day as if you didn’t know anything about it. Before I dive in, I should explain that I don’t actually observe this day with my husband. I say Happy Valentine’s Day to everyone I pass and give gift cards to family and friends, but this is not an overly stressful day for me or my husband and we are never disappointed with the outcome of the day. We keep it real low-key and stay inside where it’s safe, and that’s how we like it.  

HISTORY
Here’s an idea of where this holiday came from.


CULTURE
Check out this snippet from the article, “10 VALENTINE’S DAY TRADITIONS FROM AROUND THE WORLD” by Noreen, on the Today I Found Out site.

Be sure to click the link up top to read the full article and see all 10 traditions.

NEWS
Here's an article I found from CNN.com about how much money people in the U.S. spend on Valentine's Day.

Here’s a little lesson on the 1929 St Valentine’s Day Massacre


If you’re up for something more recent, check out this article I found, “ 20 Shocking Valentine's Day Crimes Committed by Lovers,” by Jacob Shelton on the Ranker site (I’d never heard of this site before and do not vouch for its accuracy, but it's really interesting).

MOVIES
Here are a few Valentine's themed movies, but I can't vouch for whether they'll put you in a romantic mood. 


BOOKS
Here are the top 4 Valentine’s Day themed books from Goodread’s Listopia (I’ve not read or heard of any of these, but then I’m still getting into romance as a genre, on the whole). See the full list here.


BTW- I too tried my little novice hand at writing romance and think I did a pretty good job. 
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MUSIC
Here’s a little Frank Sinatra for all the music lovers out there. If you know any other songs about Valentine’s Day or with Valentine’s Day in them, I’d love to know all about them.

If you didn’t fall in love with this post, I do hope you at least found it entertaining. And whether you observe or not, I wish you all Peace, Love, and Happy Valentine’s Day!

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Wednesday, February 13, 2019

50 Fabulous Tomatoes for Your Garden

Ruth de Jauregui


American gardeners plant a variety of fruits and vegetables, but nearly every garden features a few (or a lot) of tomato plants. From the classic 'Rutgers,' released in 1934 and used by Campbell Soup and Heinz, to the recent development of "black" tomatoes like 'Indigo Rose,' gardeners have favorites that they plant every year.

'Indigo Rose' - A small "black" tomato
My little tomato book, 50 Favorite Tomatoes for Your Garden, was conceived after my Mom saw the row of tomato plants along the fence. "What are those black things?" When I said tomatoes, she actually jumped out of her truck and went over to look at them. Along with 'Green Zebra,' 'Medford,' 'Sun Sugar' and 'Yellow Pear,' the purple-black 'Indigo Rose' has joined the row of tomato plants growing in my backyard.

'Sun Sugar' - An orange cherry tomato
Not only does the book feature 50 favorites, from heirlooms to modern hybrids, it also contains a little history about the tomato, a native of Mexico, Central and South America, and how-to-grow instructions.

Last year's tomato garden
Right now is the time to get the seeds and start seedlings indoors. In six to eight weeks, your tomatoes will be ready to plant in the garden or in containers. (Note: Because I rent, I grow my tomatoes in Dollar Store laundry baskets lined with black trash bags and filled with inexpensive potting soil. With a soaker hose wound around the plants, they thrive on the east side of the house.)

50 Fabulous Tomatoes is available on Amazon and Smashwords. It is distributed by Smashwords to a variety of ebook vendors, and thus available in favorite e-formats.

WIP
I'm currently working on my first novel Bitter Nights, which I hope to publish this year, and have outlined several more "50" garden books, including 50 Hummingbird Magnets for Your Garden. I also have several more nonfiction and fiction projects on the back burner.

WIP
In addition to writing books and a garden column, I have a part-time job and maintain a website dedicated to science fiction and fantasy for teens and young adults of Color, Alien Star Books. It is diverse and inclusive. There's room for all good books.

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Tuesday, February 12, 2019

I Am a Woman

Power Play in a Woman’s World

The Alpha, Omega and the Beta


In a world of what we’d call ‘Power Women’ today, one may be quick to identify herself with one of these labels and understanding what role she has in society. Many believe we cannot move out of that trait but as we grow and develop we do indeed change, physically and emotionally. It is possible to identify with another trait.

So with that, let’s explore some of the common traits of each type:

The Alpha Woman~

Yes, the Alpha woman loves the spotlight—and she has earned it.  She’s the born leader and women gravitate toward her.  She never settles, be it work, love or play. She’s always up for the game—and most of the time she is the game. She is very selective when choosing a mate and even friendships. She gets a high from accomplishments and winning. It feeds her core only enticing her to power up.

It’s not easy being an Alpha. The goals one set are so high that sometimes they are impossible to reach. When an Alpha falls—she falls big time, but she picks herself up and gets right back in the game.

Some famous Alphas are: Angelina Jolie, Rhianna, Beyoncé, Oprah, and Hillary Clinton.

The Omega Woman~

If you find yourself to be more sensitive to other’s feelings, you may be an Omega. Most empaths and sensitives fall into this category. The Omega woman will be much happier to spend a night at home reading or thinking up brilliant ideas than out at a crowded social gathering. She is a constant giver and will put others first, sacrificing her own needs. Energy Vampires will seek her out—they sense the vulnerability. It is a known fact that the Alpha Male is drawn to this very type of woman. Giving off so much of her energy she often is left emotionally weak and physically drained. You will find teachers, nurses and those in caretaker roles fall into this category.
With that being said—I myself fall into this category.


The Beta Woman~

Beta women long to be Alphas but simply can’t see themselves filling that role. She talks herself out of Alpha women roles and playing up the defense.  Trying to keep up and afloat seems to be the routine. She may be high strung and stressed. Some do not see what she sees in herself and at times others assume she appears on the aggressive side. The Beta woman has all the traits of an Alpha but lacks the confidence to reach and maintain the high level an Alpha functions at. She knows how to play rough and doesn’t take the bullshit others dish out. She is possessive of the things she’s worked so hard to achieve.

No matter which type you identify with, there is power in each trait. I don’t think we need to let labels define us and we are capable of attaining what we want at different times of our lives.

~ I do tend to mix these traits with most of my female lead characters. I have also taken a Beta and transformed her into an Omega in my Women of the Willow Wood Series. That’s how we create a round character versus a flat one.

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Monday, February 11, 2019

Hunting Polar Bears by NL Osguthorpe


Hunting Polar Bears





Working with young children is always eventful. They have a gift for doing and saying the unexpected and as a teacher one must always be ready to respond, leading the child down the path which will best suit their learning style, enriching their understanding and personal development. This being said, there are occasionally situations which demand an instant reaction and where the route one should take can be a little ambiguous to say the least.


Have you ever had a relationship with a colleague which is so in tune that it becomes alchemy? I have been lucky enough to experience this on several occasions in my teaching career and it is from one such pairing my story begins. Working with four-year olds is never dull and it requires a special kind of person, one who is fully willing to commit to the world of a child and allow the journey to take them. Those who really understand the nature of young children know that you can never fully control that environment, your role is not to set the learning but to find the path which leads there. And so, with this philosophy in my heart I take my class out into our playground one dreary February afternoon to find my colleague surrounded by frantically active children carrying crates and planks of wood and building bricks in a melee of beautifully orchestrated chaos. I look over to my colleague, she has the hood of her coat pulled firmly up to cover her face and waves frantically as we come out of the door, calling across the playground to us. “Do you have any food? Hurry, get on the boat!”

The children of my class look to me, their eyes twinkling with excitement, as they know the magic is about to start. “We’ve got no food!” I called back “But we’d like to get on the boat if that’s alright!”

“We need your help!” My now frantic colleague and friend cried back to me, “our boat is sinking, and we’re trapped in this Polar ice!”

Our topic this term was ‘The Land of Ice and Snow’, with a focus on the environment and conservation. All week the children had been avidly watching videos of scientists and adventurers exploring these lands of ice and snow, and so their play explored their new learning and experiences and their imaginations were alight with creativity.

“We’ve got to help them!” I exclaim to the now fully alert host of four-year olds gathered around me, “Quickly get on the boat, see what you can do to help, don’t let the ice crush the boat!”  The children hurtle into action rushing over to join their friend in glee, while my fellow teacher and I exchanged that look of anticipation which so few adults ever get to share.

For a short while there wasn’t much for us to do, the scene was set. the play engaged, our role was now to watch, assess and record. To let the children’s play, demonstrate their learning and knowledge while building those social skills which are so important for later life. 

“Polar Bear!” a child cried from the front of our ship. “I can see a Polar Bear!” It was only a matter of time before the Polar Bear would arrive, after all we had been learning about them all week and the children loved to watch the videos, read the stories and play with the collection of polar bear toys on display in the classroom.


“Get the camera!” I called back, “Let’s take a photograph!”

“No!” the child shouted back to me, in exasperation, “Lets hunt it!”

Something turned sour in my heart, all week I’d been teaching about endangered animals and our role on the planet to do what we could to protect these beautiful creatures. I looked towards my colleague and saw the same internal conflict reflected in her eyes, we both knew the politically correct route, yet turning back to the children, my mouth agape I could see laid before me the scene of the play we had set. The children were starving!

Suddenly I was grabbed roughly on both arms and spun around to face my colleague, whose eyes now twinkled with mischief.  “Are you insane?” she exclaimed “We’re starving out here! With the cold and the ice! We’ve got to eat something.” She’d obviously been down the same thought paths as me only reached her conclusion sooner, the play was now in control of the teachers.

I paused for an instant, trapped within a conflict of my own creating. I looked around me at the fully alert and engaged little faces, all waiting for my next response. “Can’t we catch some fish?” I asked pleadingly.

“No!” it was the children who replied in unison.

“The ice is too thick!” my colleague replied, sadness misted over her eyes as she looked at the faces of the children awaiting our response, she was a very good actress, “It’s us or the Polar Bear!”

My shoulders dropped, the breath I was holding expelled and sadness filled my eyes; “That’s a dangerous creature out there,” my voice was softer now resigned to the decision, the direction we would take, “we can’t just walk up to it, we’ll be ripped to shreds.”

“I know” my colleague replied and turning back to the children she cried “Get the harpoons!”

The children burst back into action, the play moved on and once again my friend and I found ourselves alone. I allowed my real face to take control and gave her a look of exasperation “We’re going to hell you know!” I told her firmly.

“I know” she said cheerfully “But at least we’re going together. Besides, we can’t let them starve.” I rolled my eyes then laughed, reminding myself this was only play.

Then I noticed a small child had quietly come up beside us, eyes cowed and face sad. Perhaps this little one was disturbed by the brutality of the play. “Are you ok sweetheart?” I asked her softly.

Her eyes sparkled as she realised that I had noticed her, and a smile spread across her face. She held out her hands towards me, cupping them like a bowl. “I brought you some Polar Bear stew.” She beamed proudly, before skipping off back to her ships galley.

I would like to state that no Polar Bears were injured during the course of these events, and that all issues raised were most fully dealt with upon return to the classroom.  I also feel I should apologise to the Polar bear, for our compliance for this fictitious act. There really was no other choice we could have made we had to feed the children.

As I said the life of a teacher is never dull.                                                            

NL Osguthorpe

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