Thursday, October 30, 2025

She Became a Vampire

Her life changed long ago 

After enduring three exhausting weeks of arduous travel through the rugged countryside, they finally made their way back to the magnificent palace. Aya eagerly anticipated the comfort of her luxurious quarters and the flock of servants who would cater to her every need and whim. At just eighteen years old, she emitted delicate beauty that had stolen the pharaoh’s heart when he took her as his third wife only a year ago. Her flawless skin glowed in the sun, framed by luscious dark locks and deep, alluring eyes.

***

Although she had initially resisted the arranged marriage, it was a great honor and elevation in status for her family. Yet deep down, her heart still belonged to Tanamet, her first and only love. He was a low-status merchant, and they both knew their forbidden relationship could never be more than stolen moments of happiness during her time living in her father’s house while Tanamet delivered his delectable baked goods.

On her wedding day, as Aya said her final goodbyes to Tanamet, her heart ached with the realization that she may never see him again. But he promised to find a way for them to be together, and she clung to that tiny shred of hope as she was whisked away to the wedding ceremony.

Despite the grandeur surrounding her, Aya couldn’t stop dreaming about Tanamet. She complacently followed orders and endured the middle-aged pharaoh’s clammy hands groping at her and his wet kisses on her body. The marriage bed was only visited once a month, much to her relief, and when she became pregnant, the pharaoh showered her with gifts. With the birth of her son, Aya’s status rose even higher, inciting bitter jealousy and hate among the other wives who could only bear daughters. Fearing for her son’s safety and his role as her ticket to a higher status, Aya surrounded him with loyal servants from her father’s court. The palace was filled with intrigue and tension, with sharp daggers hidden in the eyes of two wives who held higher status than Aya’s own. And though the pharaoh doted on his son with joy in his eyes, he showed no interest in his daughters, who seemed to fade into obscurity after their births.

***

Aya strolled through the palace, her steps gliding effortlessly as three handmaidens followed closely behind. The grandeur of the long corridors never ceased to amaze her, with its breathtaking wall paintings and magnificent statues of the Gods. Her heart swelled with a sense of longing and nostalgia as she walked, each footfall echoing off the marble floors.

As they reached the ornately carved door to her quarters, Aya’s pace quickened, and her eyes sparkled with excitement. The servants bowed and opened the massive door for her, revealing a lavish room filled with luxurious furnishings.

With a joyful smile on her face, Aya rushed inside and scooped up the chubby baby boy from the nanny’s arms. She held him close, examining every inch of his healthy body. “Is he well?” she asked the old woman who had nursed her as a child.

“He is thriving and content,” the woman replied with a warm smile, bowing her head respectfully.

Aya showered the child with kisses before gently handing him back to the nanny’s care. “My skin feels rough and dry,” she noted, turning to her handmaidens. “I think a milk and honey bath would wash away the grime of the awful travel.”

The young women nodded in agreement and quickly scurried away to prepare the relaxing bath. Aya motioned to her favorite maid to assist with undressing her. “Ugh,” she sighed wearily. “I feel soiled.”

“You will feel clean and refreshed after your bath,” the maid promised, handing her a cup filled with cool lemonade.   

***

The piercing screams and chaotic yells jolted Aya awake from her peaceful after-bath nap. She stumbled out of bed, her heart racing as she spotted Tanamet leaning against the wall with a dark, sinister look in his eyes.

“How did you...” she stammered, fear coursing through her body. “What did you do?” she screamed, horrified by the sight of her loyal servants lying lifeless on the carpet, their once vibrant clothes now drenched in blood. “Where’s my son?” she demanded, panic rising in her voice.

With a firm grip on her arm, he dragged her toward the adjoining room where the old nanny stood trembling, cradling Aya’s baby in her arms.

Tanamet threw Aya to the ground and shouted, “You belong to me!”

She cowered before him, lowering her head and whispering through quivering lips, “Why did you kill my servants? What happened to you?”

“I died,” he laughed. “And now I’ll live forever.”

“You’re not the Tanamet I fell in love with,” Aya whimpered.

“No!” Tanamet laughed again. “I was weak. Now I’m strong, and I do as I wish.”

“Kill me, but spare my son. He’s just an innocent child.” Aya begged with tears in her eyes.

He took a step back and observed her with a calculating gaze. “Your son will be Pharaoh! But that old man can’t touch you anymore. You’re coming with me.” The air hung heavy with tension as Aya resigned herself to her fate, knowing she had no choice but to follow Tanamet’s command.

“Where?” Aya whimpered and shrank back, but her coal eyes flashed with murderous rage hidden by her thick eyelashes. This is not the kind and lowly merchant I parted from a year ago. He’s a murderer!

“We’ll be together forever!” Tanamet shouted, grabbing her waist; he pulled her close.

Aya’s body tensed as she watched the transformation come over Tanamet. His once gentle features contorted into a menacing snarl, his eyes glowing a deep, fiery amber color. As he opened his mouth to reveal sharp fangs glinting in the light of the oil lamps, Aya’s blood ran cold. She recoiled in horror as Tanamet bit into his own arm and forcefully dripped a few drops of his blood into her mouth. The metallic taste flooded her senses, making her retch and gag, but before she could react, Tanamet sank his razor-sharp teeth into her neck with a ferocity that sent shivers down her spine.

***

For what felt like an eternity, Aya had been subsisting on a strict diet of only fresh blood. The thick, coppery taste heralded the beginning of her eternal existence as she remembered the fateful evening when Tanamet sank his teeth into her neck and fed her his potent blood. But the feeling of immortality coursed through her veins, a constant reminder of that transformative moment when her fate was forever sealed.

Tanamet, consumed by his newfound power as a creature of the night, becoming a powerful immortal, had changed him in ways Aya could never have imagined - transforming him into a cruel and heartless monster who saw Aya as nothing more than an object to be owned. But she was no longer the timid victim she used to be when she was controlled by her family and her despised husband. Embracing her strength and abilities, she couldn’t tolerate Tanamet’s mistreatment. And so, one fateful day, she took action as he slumbered in their darkened dwelling. She paralyzed him by piercing his heart with a wooden stick with such ferocity that the sharp stick went through his body, pinning him to the bed. Gathering bundles of hay, she set fire to her oppressor’s body and watched with great satisfaction as he burned to ashes before her very eyes. It was a final act of retribution, freeing herself from his grasp and taking back control of her life.

Her heart ached with longing to see her son again, and she was determined to find a way. Using the secret passages that one of the servants had shown her while she was still human, she managed to sneak into the palace under the cover of night. The narrow and interconnected passages were like a giant cobweb, with hidden doors concealed behind statues and tapestries. It was as if the palace itself were conspiring to keep her mission a secret. With stealth and agility, she navigated through the maze-like corridors, able to enter any room undetected. The adrenaline raced through her veins as she inched closer to her ultimate goal - to see her beloved son. She watched the peacefully sleeping baby but quickly retreated when the hunger for warm blood overwhelmed her.

In the eerie depths of the palace, where shadows danced and whispered secrets, she encountered creatures of the night. They prowled the dimly lit passageways, their glowing eyes reflecting the moonlight. In the daylight hours, they disappeared into hidden rooms and crevices, waiting for the cover of darkness to roam once again. One fateful night, Aya came face to face with Bahia, her beloved handmaiden who had vanished without a trace not long after their arrival at the palace. The others had searched tirelessly for answers about her disappearance, but all that could be found were wild speculations and hushed gossip. Now Aya understood why - for she, too, had become privy to the dark secrets lurking within the walls of the palace.

Bahia’s voice held a bitter edge as she spoke. “I’ve been turned against my will, just like you, my lady,” she said. Her words were laced with resentment and regret. “But unlike so many others who succumbed to their primal urges to drain and kill their victims, I swore to never harm a human, no matter how tempting their life force may seem.”  

Aya leaned in, her curiosity piqued. “How do you do that?” she asked. “Sometimes I can stop, and the human lives, but most of the time, my hunger is so great, and they struggle so much that I can’t stop until I drain them.”

Bahia’s eyes flickered with ancient wisdom as she whispered her answer. “An old immortal taught me that all of us have the ability to mesmerize humans,” she revealed. “We hold the power over their minds and can use it wisely.”

Aya’s eyes widened in understanding as she processed Bahia’s words. She could feel the weight of her own desire coursing through her veins, a savage hunger for fresh blood that she struggled to control. But Bahia’s words offered a glimmer of hope - if only she could learn to leave behind only dazed, living humans, perhaps she could ease the guilt and shame that consumed her. “Show me how to stop,” she urged, desperation creeping into her voice. “What do I have to do?”

Continue reading AYA'S STORY in the book:

https://books2read.com/u/4Xvkwv

A short story collection to make you shiver. The stories we tell through chattering teeth around campfires and on Halloween nights always contain a kernel of truth, a sinister echo of something ancient and malevolent that prowls the shadowy corridors of our minds. On stormy nights, as we huddled under blankets, those aren't tree branches scraping your window. Those aren't pipes groaning in your walls. That's IT. It’s clawing through the membrane between worlds, its breath freezing the back of your neck. Its breath a cold mist that fogs the windows of perception, refusing to be forgotten even as daylight tries to burn away its presence…

Thursday, October 23, 2025

I will make you stink if you scare me

 Pretty for sure, but smells a bit different than a rose

Skunks may be infamous for their pungent spray
but ecologically, they’re unsung heroes with a surprising résumé. Here’s why they matter:

Natural Pest Control 

Skunks feast on insects like beetles, grasshoppers, grubs, and even wasps. They also hunt small mammals like mice and voles. This keeps the pest populations in check, benefiting farmers, gardeners, and forest ecosystems.

Soil Aeration and Fertility 

Their digging habits, while annoying to some, actually aerate the soil, improving its structure. Plus, their droppings and decomposed remains enrich the earth with organic nutrients.

Seed Dispersal 

Skunks eat fruits and berries, and their movement helps scatter seeds, promoting plant diversity and regeneration.

Scavenging and Nutrient Cycling 

By consuming carrion, skunks aid in decomposition and nutrient recycling, which supports a healthy ecosystem.

Food Chain Link 

Skunks themselves are prey for larger animals like owls, coyotes, and foxes. Their presence supports predator populations and biodiversity.

In short, skunks are the quiet custodians of the ecosystem, cleaning up, fertilizing, and balancing populations.


https://books2read.com/u/4Xvkwv
Echoes of Something Wicked is Erika M Szabo’s latest collection of short stories. Each one a masterclass in suspense, dread, and emotional depth. From psychic visions to blood-soaked betrayals, these tales will grip you and refuse to let go. Perfect for fans of atmospheric horror, mythic echoes, and stories that linger long after the last page.

Friday, October 17, 2025

Stories to Make You Shiver

 Stories that whisper, claw, and scream

With each turn of the page, readers are transported to fantastic worlds where anything is possible, and every twist and turn leaves them eagerly anticipating what will happen next. This collaboration of creative minds brings to life a captivating journey for those who dare to question the boundaries of reality and embrace the possibilities of the unknown.

What If? Anthology Series & Campfire Tales

The stories in the anthology


Monday, October 6, 2025

The Language of Dogs

 Dogs have a rich and nuanced communication system


Dogs are constantly “talking,” and they read each other’s signals faster than humans can. Their interactions are like a dance of subtle cues and responses. 

Dogs have a rich and nuanced communication system that goes far beyond barking. Their “language” is a blend of body signals, vocalizations, scent cues, and subtle facial expressions. Here’s a breakdown of how they connect with one another:

Primary Modes of Dog Communication

Body Language

Tail position and movement: A high, stiff tail can signal alertness or dominance; a relaxed wag often means friendliness. Interestingly, wagging more to the right suggests positive emotions, while wagging to the left may indicate uncertainty.

Posture: Standing tall with forward weight can be assertive; crouching or rolling over shows submission or playfulness. Hackles (raised fur): Not always aggression, can signal excitement or fear.

Facial Expressions & Eye Contact: Soft eyes and a relaxed mouth indicate calmness and comfort. Tense lips, narrowed eyes, or a snarl: Signals discomfort or threat. Avoiding eye contact: A calming signal to defuse tension. Submissive grin: Some dogs flash their teeth in a goofy, friendly way, not aggression.

Vocalizations

Barking: Can express excitement, alertness, or a warning.

Growling: Often a warning, but can also occur during play.

Whining or whimpering: Signals distress, anxiety, or a desire for attention.

Howling: A form of long-distance communication or emotional expression.

Scent & Pheromones

Dogs sniff each other’s urine, feces, and bodies to gather info about age, sex, health, and emotional state. Scent marking helps establish territory and social hierarchy.

Touch

Playful nudges, pawing, or gentle mouthing can be affectionate or part of social play. Mounting could be sexual, but it can be about dominance or excitement.

Now that we know how dogs really communicate, watch this fun with Flipper and his buddy, Gypsy.



Sunday, October 5, 2025

The Cat Who Loved Bedtime Stories

 Marmalade the orange cat


As a child, I had an orange tabby called Marmalade. She loved the outdoors and often climbed up on the trees chasing squirrels or birds. However, every time forgetting she had fear of hights, I had to climb up after her and help her down.

Each night, she would curl up by my side each night, softly purring as I read aloud from dog-eared storybooks until we both drifted to sleep.

Though Marmalade has been gone for many years now, I still feel the phantom weight of her against my side whenever I open a book at bedtime. 


I've been writing stories for growups and children for over a decade now, https://www.authorerikamszabo.com/ and I'm sure Marmalade would love to listen to this story.

In Spanish and English

Message from a father:

“I received a copy of this book before publishing, and I can honestly say that this is by far the best children's story I ever read to my seven-years-old son. He hung onto every word and displayed a wide range of emotions throughout the story such as sadness, fear, excitement, and sheer joy. What I value most is when we finished the book he said to me, "Dad, I wish I had a dog like Peanut." At first, I thought that he's just like any other little boy is wishing for a dog, but then seeing his unusually sad expression, I asked him why he wants a dog like the one in the story. He said, "Because a dog like Peanut could save me from Connor." My heart jumped into my throat because I never noticed any sign that my son was bullied. When I asked him why he didn't tell us before, he said because he thought I would be mad at him not being able to defend himself. This story encouraged him to tell me and we are working on solving his problem together.” ~Brian VanBramer

Another cute cat, his name is Henry

 

Sunday, September 28, 2025

Fascinating Native American Mythology

 Star People, Sky Beings, spiritual messengers

Native American mythology is rich with stories of celestial beings, often interpreted today as “alien visitors” but traditionally understood as Star People, Sky Beings, or spiritual messengers. These legends span many tribes and are deeply woven into cosmology, ritual, and ancestral memory.

“Star People” in Indigenous Lore
Many tribes describe encounters with beings from the stars, not as invaders or sci-fi aliens, but as benevolent guides, teachers, or guardians:

Hopi traditions speak of ancestors who were visited by Star People who imparted wisdom and helped shape their spiritual practices. Some Hopi elders have claimed extraterrestrials influenced their history and cosmology.

Lakota cosmology includes visions by Black Elk, a revered medicine man, that some interpret as describing contact with otherworldly beings. Star systems are seen as spiritual realms, not just physical places.

Zuni legends recount transformative encounters with sky beings, infusing their rituals with cosmic significance.

Iroquois and Algonquin stories include references to beings descending from the sky in “flying canoes” or “shining vessels,” often linked to divine or heroic figures.

These beings are often described with reverence, not fear, suggesting a spiritual or symbolic role rather than literal extraterrestrial visitation.

Myth or Memory?

Some modern interpretations, especially from Ancient Astronaut theorists, suggest these stories may reflect actual encounters with extraterrestrials.
For example:
A tale from AncientPages.com describes Star People rescuing humans in a way that seems to defy the technological limits of the time.

Legends like Tarenyawagon, who ascended to the stars in a “fast flying shining canoe,” are sometimes reinterpreted as ancient descriptions of spacecraft.

But within Native traditions, these stories are rarely framed as “alien” in the modern sense, they’re spiritual, symbolic, and deeply cultural.

Cultural Significance

Rather than asking “Did aliens visit?” many Native perspectives focus on what these beings represent:

Connection to the cosmos: 
The stars are not distant, they’re part of the spiritual landscape.

Wisdom and guidance: 
Star People often bring teachings, warnings, or healing.

Ancestral memory: 
These stories preserve identity, values, and cosmological understanding.

A Prolific Writer


Erika M Szabo, a prolific and talented author with a fierce intellect and a penchant for exploring uncharted territories, is a woman of many skills and passions. She is known for her diverse range of writings that span historical fantasy, magical realism, cozy mysteries, sweet romance, and children's literature. Her writing style is both evocative and visceral, transporting readers into the depths of the characters' emotions with a few deft strokes of her pen.
Born in a small town nestled among the rolling hills of Hungary, Erika grew up with a deep love for literature and storytelling. She devoured books from a young age and soon began creating her own intricate worlds and characters. Her gift for storytelling is evident to all those who know her, and she is encouraged to pursue her passion.
As she grew older, Erika's thirst for adventure and new experiences led her to travel the world. She lived in various countries, soaking up their cultures and traditions, and incorporating them into her writing. Her travels also allowed her to meet a diverse array of people, whose stories and perspectives she wove into her novels.
Despite her literary success and acclaim, Erika remains a humble and down-to-earth person. She often speaks of her belief in the power of words to connect and heal, and her writing reflects this deep empathy and understanding of human experience.

Sunday, September 21, 2025

About the Remake of Harry Potter

Are we a little too sceptical?

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It’s a bold move, and whether it’s a good idea depends on what you value most about the franchise. In my humble opinion, the casting was brilliant in the Harry Potter series adapted from the J. K. Rowling novels, and the scenes and techniques are truly magical. For now, I'm partial to the original cast, but perhaps when I see the first episode of the remake, I'll change my mind. 

Why a Remake Could Work
More Faithful Adaptation: 
A TV series format allows for deeper storytelling. Chris Columbus, who directed the first two films, said he’s excited about the remake because it can include scenes and details that had to be cut from the movies.
New Generation Appeal: 
Younger audiences who didn’t grow up with the original films might connect more with a modern retelling.
Expanded Universe Potential: 
HBO could use the series to build out side stories, character arcs, and magical lore that were only hinted at before.

Why It Might Be Risky
The Originals Are Iconic: 
The original films made over $7.7 billion globally and are beloved by fans. Remaking something that successful risks backlash.
With spin-offs like Fantastic Beasts receiving mixed reviews, some fans worry about overextending the brand.
High Expectations: 
Fans are protective of the source material, and any deviation or misstep could be harshly criticized.

Ultimately, it’s not about replacing the originals

It’s about reimagining them for a new format and audience. If done with care and creativity, it could be magical. But if it feels like a cash grab, the spell might break.
Remakes tend to stir up strong opinions, and not always the good kind. Here are the most common criticisms that swirl around them:

Lack of Originality
Critics often argue that remakes reflect a creative drought in Hollywood.
Studios may rely on familiar titles instead of taking risks on new stories, which can stifle innovation.

Profit Over Passion
Many remakes are seen as cash grabs, banking on nostalgia rather than artistic merit.
Familiar IPs are considered safer bets for box office returns, even if the remake lacks soul.

Dilution of the Original
Remakes sometimes fail to capture the essence of what made the original special.
Changes to plot, tone, or casting can alienate fans and diminish emotional impact.

Poor Critical Reception
Statistically, remakes tend to score lower on review aggregators like Rotten Tomatoes.
One study showed that remakes averaged a 47% Tomatometer score, while originals averaged 81%.

Miscasting or Misinterpretation
Iconic roles are hard to recast—audiences often struggle to accept new actors in beloved parts.
If the remake shifts the tone or theme too much, it can feel disconnected or disrespectful to the original.

Of course, not all remakes are doomed to fail. Films like The Departed and A Star Is Born prove that with the right vision, a remake can shine. But when studios prioritize familiarity over freshness, audiences tend to notice, and not in a good way.

What do you think? Could the remake be a success?

Although this book is no Harry Potter

But still a fun read for kids who like Halloween

Friday, September 19, 2025

The Dangers of Letting Your Dog Lick Your Face

 Why does your dog lick your face?

Dogs lick your face for a mix of instinctual, emotional, and social reasons—it's their version of a Swiss Army knife for communication. Here's what might be going on behind that slobbery affection:

Instinct & Ancestry
In the wild, pups lick their mother’s face to encourage her to regurgitate food. This behavior carries over into adulthood as a sign of submission or bonding.

Licking is a way dogs signal friendliness and non-aggression. It’s like saying, “I come in peace.”

Affection & Bonding:
Canine Kisses: 
Many dogs lick to show love. It’s often interpreted as a sign of affection, especially if they’re relaxed and wagging their tail.

Learned Behavior: 
If you respond with petting or praise, your dog learns that licking gets positive attention—so they keep doing it.

Taste & Curiosity
You Taste Interesting: 
Your skin might carry traces of food, sweat, or lotion that intrigues your dog’s sensitive nose and tongue.
Exploration: Dogs use their mouths to explore the world. Licking is part of that sensory toolkit.

Emotional Signals
Stress or Anxiety: 
Some dogs lick compulsively when they’re anxious. If it’s excessive or paired with other signs of stress, it might be worth checking in with a vet.
Licking can be a calming signal, especially if your dog feels uncertain or wants to defuse tension.

Health risks

Letting your dog lick your face might feel affectionate, but it can carry some health risks—especially if the lick lands near your mouth, nose, or eyes. Here are some diseases and infections that can potentially be transmitted through dog saliva:

Bacterial Infections
A rare but serious bacterial infection that can cause sepsis, especially in people with weakened immune systems.
Can lead to skin infections or more serious complications if it enters the bloodstream.
Causes diarrhea, fever, and stomach cramps; more common in puppies.
Salmonella & E. coli: 
These bacteria can be present in a dog’s mouth if they’ve eaten contaminated food or feces.

Parasitic Infections
A parasitic infection that causes gastrointestinal symptoms.
Roundworms & Flatworms: 
These can be transmitted if your dog hasn’t been properly dewormed.
A parasite passed through dog feces that can cause fever, coughing, and even vision problems.

Viral Infections
Rabies: Extremely rare in vaccinated dogs, but still a concern in areas with poor vaccination coverage2.

Fungal Infections
Despite the name, it’s a fungal infection that can cause itchy, ring-shaped rashes.

The risk increases if:
Your dog is not vaccinated or dewormed
They’ve been exposed to other animals or poor hygiene
You have a weakened immune system or open wounds on your face
So while those slobbery kisses are sweet, it’s safest to keep them away from your face, especially your eyes, nose, and mouth.

Training your dog to stop licking

Training your dog to stop licking, especially if it’s excessive or directed at your face, it takes consistency, patience, and a little behavioral insight.

Step-by-Step Training Tips

Ignore the Behavior
When your dog licks you, calmly stand up and walk away.
Don’t scold or react emotionally—any attention (even negative) can reinforce the behavior.

Redirect with a Command
Teach a simple command like “sit” or “down.”
When they start licking, use the command and reward them for obeying instead of licking.

Use Positive Reinforcement
Praise and treat your dog when they choose not to lick.
Reinforce calm, non-licking behavior consistently.

Provide Distractions
Offer chew toys, puzzle feeders, or playtime to redirect energy and anxiety.
Mental stimulation can reduce compulsive behaviors like licking.

Set Boundaries
If your dog licks furniture or objects, use bitter-tasting sprays (safe for pets) to discourage it.
Be consistent with what’s off-limits.

Dog-appeasing pheromones (DAP) can help reduce anxiety-driven licking.

Consult a Vet or Trainer
If licking is obsessive or sudden, it could signal a medical or emotional issue.
A professional can help rule out underlying causes and offer tailored strategies.

My dog is a thief

Enjoy the short story written by author Erika M Szabo, https://www.authorerikamszabo.com
Read by narrator Carrie Wimmer, https://www.narrationnation.org

I hope you found this information useful and enjoyed Lucky's story. Let me know in comments.

Wednesday, September 17, 2025

Full-body Workout for your Brain

 

What does reading do to your brain

Reading is like a full-body workout for your brain, except instead of lifting weights, you're lifting ideas, emotions, and entire worlds. Here's how it transforms your mind:

1. Strengthens Brain Structure
Reading activates multiple brain regions, including:

Temporal lobe: for decoding sounds and phonological awareness

Broca’s area: for speech production and language comprehension

Angular and supramarginal gyrus: for linking visual symbols to meaning

It also enhances white matter connectivity, which improves communication between different brain areas, like building faster highways for information.

2. Boosts Neuroplasticity
Reading encourages the brain to form new neural pathways and strengthen existing ones.

This adaptability improves memory, learning, and problem-solving over time.

3. Improves Cognitive Function
Enhances vocabulary, critical thinking, and analytical skills.

Strengthens working memory as you track plots, characters, and ideas.

Builds concentration and attention span, especially when reading long-form content.

Reading literary fiction helps develop the “theory of mind”—the ability to understand others’ thoughts and feelings.

This makes you more attuned to social cues and better at navigating relationships.

5. Protects Against Cognitive Decline
Regular reading is linked to slower cognitive aging and reduced risk of dementia.

Older adults who read frequently show better mental resilience and memory retention.

6. Reduces Stress and Improves Sleep
Reading can lower cortisol levels and help you unwind.

Print books (especially fiction) are great for bedtime routines, promoting deeper sleep.

In short, reading doesn’t just entertain, it rewires your brain, sharpens your mind, and deepens your humanity.

Wednesday, September 10, 2025

Folk Art Symbolism Part 1

 The meaning of symbols

I've always been fascinated by folk art and the meaning of the symbols. These symbols are not just decorative, they carry deep cultural meaning, often tied to nature, spirituality, and identity.

Scandinavian rosemaling


Swirling floral motifs often seen in Norwegian and Swedish decorative painting.
Symbolism & Meaning:

Nature’s Whimsy: 
The floral motifs and curling vines reflect a deep connection to the natural world, especially Norway’s lush valleys and fjords.

Joy & Resilience: 
Bright colors and dynamic shapes were used to bring warmth and cheer to homes during long, dark winters.

Cultural Identity: 
Each region developed its own style, almost like a visual dialect. These designs became emblems of local pride and heritage.

Baltic pagan symbols




The fire cross and sun spiral, rich in ancestral and seasonal significance.
Symbolism:

Fire & Thunder: 
Represents the elemental force of fire and the power of storms

Sun & Light: 
Associated with the sun’s energy and the triumph of light over darkness

Protection: 
Used as a talisman to ward off evil and misfortune

Happiness & Vitality: 
Symbolizes life force, joy, and cosmic balance

Despite its visual similarity to the swastika, the Fire Cross predates its appropriation by millennia and holds entirely different cultural and spiritual meaning in Baltic tradition.

Hungarian Kalocsa embroidery

Credit: Hungarian Embroidery 101 - History - Dans le Lakehouse

Vibrant floral patterns with bold reds, yellows, and blues.
Symbolism:

Joy & Celebration: 
The explosion of colors—reds, pinks, yellows, blues—represents happiness, youth, and the vibrancy of life. These motifs are often used in wedding attire and festive garments.

Seasonal Renewal: 
The floral designs evoke spring and summer, symbolizing fertility, growth, and the renewal of nature.

Generational Identity: 
Color palettes vary by age and status. For example: Bright, pastel colors for young women and brides
Muted “sad colors” (lavender, purple) for widows or older women.

Friday, September 5, 2025

Adult Age Kids Cutting Off Their Parents

 There’s a rising trend in our culture


I had a long chat with a friend from nursing school, and she discussed the difficulties she and her husband are experiencing with keeping in touch with their grown children. 

After a long and detailed discussion we concluded:

There’s a rising trend in our culture that very few people notice and think about: adult-age children cutting off their parents.

I’m not talking about abuse situations or dangerous relationships. 

I’m talking about loving, flawed parents who raised their children, gave sacrificially, and are now being completely shut out with no warning, no conversation, and no willingness to reconcile.

I looked into this, and according to research, the vast majority of estrangements between parents and adult children are initiated by the child, not the parent.

Often, the parent doesn’t even fully know why. One day, the phone calls stop. The texts go unanswered. The holidays are silent. And when you finally hear something, it’s often a list of offenses you didn’t even know existed.

Why is this happening?

Because our culture now teaches that anyone who doesn’t “support how you feel” is toxic. Therapy-speak has replaced honor. Social site influencers and pop psychology encourage cutting people off as an act of self-love.

Many adult-aged children are now rewriting their childhoods, relabeling boundaries as trauma, and tossing aside their parents like disposable relationships.

This is rebellion. It’s spiritual deception. It’s pride disguised as empowerment.

If you’re a parent and going through this, you’re not alone. 

You’re not crazy. And you’re not a failure as a parent. The goal is to target families, and this is one of his most effective tools right now: deception and division.

You, as parents, still have something to give. Love, advice, presence. Not perfection but something real. And now it just sits there, wasted. Not because you've failed, but because your children are eager to take advice from popular trends and have decided you are no longer worth the effort.

Sunday, August 31, 2025

Love Potion or Potion of Shadows?

Can we control the unpredictable nature of love? 


Love potions are a fascinating blend of folklore, chemistry, and cultural psychology. Their history is as rich and layered as any mythic tale, with roots stretching across continents and centuries.

Ancient Origins

Ancient Greece: 
The earliest known love potions, called philtres, were used to stir desire or bind affection. The physician Xenocrates (3rd century BCE) recommended mallow sap for arousing women, while Dioscorides wrote of mandrake root steeped in wine as a seductive aid.

Rome: 
Love potions were sold in the Sabura district, accessible even to common folk. Recipes included aphrodisiac seafood like oysters and cuttlefish. The poet Lucretius was allegedly driven mad by one such potion.

India: 
The Kama Sutra (3rd century BCE) offered instructions for seduction, including playing a reed pipe treated with plant juices to ignite passion.

Islamic Golden Age: 
Avicenna (Ibn Sina) described love brews made of honey, pepper, and ginger. These were part of a broader tradition of erotic manuals like The Perfumed Garden.

Magic, Myth, and Alchemy

Witchcraft & Sorcery: 
In European folklore, witches were often said to concoct love potions using herbs like mandrake, henbane, and satyrion (possibly the orchis plant). These ingredients were believed to have mystical properties due to their anthropomorphic shapes or intoxicating effects.

Alchemy: 
Medieval alchemists saw love potions as part of their quest for transformation—both physical and spiritual. The idea of manipulating emotion through chemistry was deeply tied to the search for the elixir of life.

Sensory Seduction

Egypt, Greece, Rome: 
Fragrances played a huge role in seduction. Botanical oils like jasmine, rose, and patchouli were used in perfumes, massage oils, and ceremonial headdresses.

Modern Aromatherapy: 
Today, essential oils are still used to evoke romantic moods. Scents like ylang ylang and sandalwood stimulate the limbic system, which governs emotion and memory.

Love Potions in Fantasy Literature

A young adult fantasy

A love potion made with haste out of jealousy puts Dorian into a comalike state. A rare orchid that blooms only once a year could save his life, but Liam and his werewolf pack fiercely guard the precious flowers. The acolytes of the coven are forbidden to enter the forest, and the young apprentices volunteer to make the journey that will test their loyalty and courage. Will they succeed?

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The Potion - Author Erika M Szabo

Friday, August 29, 2025

The impact of teasing and bullying

 

Teasing children about their size, weight, height, or body shape, can have deep and lasting psychological effects. What might seem like a passing comment to an adult can become a defining wound for a child.

Emotional and Psychological Impact

Lowered self-esteem: 

Children often internalize teasing, leading them to feel abnormal, ashamed, or unworthy—even if there's no objective reason to feel that way.

Distorted self-image: 

Remarks like “looks like someone’s getting a belly” or “are you sure you want to eat that?” can warp a child’s perception of their body, regardless of their actual health.

Increased risk of anxiety and depression: 

Repeated teasing—especially from family members—can heighten emotional distress and contribute to long-term mental health issues.

Avoidance behaviors: 

Kids may withdraw from physical activities, social situations, or even school to escape environments where they feel vulnerable.

Behavioral Consequences

Bullying others: 

Some children cope by redirecting their pain, becoming bullies themselves to feel a sense of control.

Disordered eating: 

Shame around food and body image can lead to unhealthy relationships with eating, either restriction or bingeing.

Family Teasing: 

Especially Harmful. Comments from parents or relatives—even if well-intentioned—can be more damaging than peer teasing. Children often view family as their emotional compass, so teasing from loved ones can feel like a betrayal.

What Helps

Affirmation and support: 

Reinforcing that every body is worthy and teasing is never okay.

Open dialogue: 

Encouraging kids to talk about their feelings and experiences.

Modeling healthy behavior: 

Adults should avoid moralizing food or body types and instead promote kindness and self-acceptance.

The story of Lucky, the bullied little monkey

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Lucky, the sweet-natured little monkey, was teased and bullied by the animals who didn't take time to get to know her. They said she was a dumpy, chunky, silly, scaredy, grumpy, clumsy monkey. Lucky was sad, but when her friend told her that instead of feeling miserable, she should listen to others who knew her and said she was a kind, lovely, cuddly, bubbly, spunky monkey.

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