I am a traveler, and generally, I am going to plan my trips very carefully.
This is because the places I visit are everything but easy.
They are either in conflict areas in Africa or other not tourist
My thirst for knowledge is the driving force that attracts me to those places, and I want to know all the aspects of different cultures in the first person.
I love to ask people that have been living a particular conflict, a critical political period, or other interesting events.
Nevertheless, this time, the situation seems to slip from our hands.
The journey I am going to undertake together with my husband will bring us on the road between Lagos, Nigeria and Accra, Ghana. We will be driving through Benin and Togo stopping for a few days in each country.
The problem was (and still is) obtaining the Visa for Nigeria.
We made the first application for a multiple-entry visa, but we received only a single entry one (for the unrefunded price of the multiple-entry. Oh well, T.I.A. This Is Africa).
Finland doesn't have a Nigerian embassy, so everything was handled by the one located in Sweden. When we explained on the phone that we also needed a re-entry visa, they told us that we could obtain it better at the Nigerian embassy in Ghana.
"You have nothing to worry about," were their final words.
I wish I didn't listen to them.
We waited, and a couple of weeks ago, we contacted the Nigerian embassy in Ghana, explaining our situation and asking to fix already an appointment to get the visa.
Surprise! their answer: "we do not release visas for people who are not Ghanan residents."
PANIC!
Now, we have sent back our passports to the Nigerian Embassy in Sweden, with the request for another visa. We are keeping our finger crossed to have our passports back before the 2nd of August.
If not, we will have two choices:
1) we give up our journey
2) we go to Sweden and get our passports back even without the re-entry visa, and we travel anyway trying to figure out a way to return to Helsinki.
Of course, you can imagine that for us there is no option. We are leaving at any cost.
Besides, this journey is essential for the next paranormal thriller, I am going to write, so I will never give up a trip. Moreover, I start really to feel a sort of Africa blues, and I need to come back there.
Keep your finger crossed and let's hope for the best!
Hope to see you again...
Thursday, July 25, 2019
Tuesday, July 23, 2019
Cursed Bloodline: Secrets and Lies
Cursed Bloodline
Romantic suspense with historical elements
Is it possible that an ancient curse
cast by a powerful witch sixteen-hundred years ago could destroy families in every
generation for centuries?
Dark family secrets
separated Sofia and Daniel when they were children, but fate brought them together
years later.
When Sofia’s
brother finds a leather book in his grandmother's secret room that was written
in 426 by a shaman, dark memories of their childhood start to surface.
Reading the ancient
runes, they learn about their family's curse. If it remains unbroken, the curse
will bring tragedy and ruin their lives as it destroyed many of their ancestors'
lives. Could they find the way to break the ancient curse?
“This is the curse of an evil deed that incites and must
bring forth more evil.” ~Johann Friedrich Von
Prologue
Present day
“Wow!” Sofia blurted as they entered the secret room. “You
were right, there are lots of treasures
in here.”
“I looked only in this trunk but look at the shelves.”
Sofia walked to the shelves and touched the carved, wooden
and stone statues one by one. “Look,” she said, “the Sacred Turul. This wood
carving is a masterpiece!”
“Yes, I estimate it to be at least a thousand years old.
Look at this horse.” He pointed at the black onyx statue.
“Magnificent!” Sofia marveled.
“We can look at those later,” Jayden mentioned to Sofia.
“Let’s see if we can find more writing in the trunk.”
“Okay…” Sofia hesitantly replied. She was having a hard time
averting her eyes from rows after rows of statues, jewelry, headdresses adorned
with beads, gold chalices and bowls.
Jayden opened the wooden trunk and started taking out the
items that were wrapped in leather. He pulled the coverings open which revealed
swords, knives, handmade leather shoes, and carefully-wrapped scrolls.
“Jay, look!” Sofia pointed at the inside of the trunk lid.
“There’s an envelope and it doesn’t seem old.”
Jayden grabbed the corner of the white envelope but couldn’t
pull it away. “It seems to be glued to the top,” he stated as he carefully
lifted the corner with a knife and pried it away from the wood without ripping
the paper.
As he turned it he saw writing on the envelope. “For Sofia
and Jayden,” he read out loud. “It’s Grandma’s handwriting and it’s for us.” He
sat down on a box, opened the envelope and pulled out the folded letter. He
started reading it out loud.
Dearest Sofia and
Jayden,
You’re reading this
letter, which means I’m gone. I swore to your mother that I would never tell
you about the family curse, but I cannot take it to my grave. Although your
mother always strongly believed that it is merely a stupid legend and refused
to listen to me, I must let you know somehow. Jayden, your life in danger…
The year 426 in the
Carpathian Basin
As they got close to the trees and peeked out, they saw
disheveled men sitting on the ground around fires. Their savage laughs, as they
were eating and drinking, cut through to their hearts. Elana gasped when she
saw the lifeless bodies of her neighbors thrown to the ground. Zala turned to
Elana and raised his eyebrow, silently asking if she was ready. Her eyes shone
with anger. She nodded and placed an arrow on her bow and pulled the string,
aiming at the head of the loudest bandit who seemed to be the horde’s leader.
Zala whispered, “You have lost the most. You have the right
to revenge.”
Elana let the arrow fly, and it pierced the bandit’s
forehead between his eyes, coming out at the back of his head halfway. His body fell backward, limp and lifeless.
Zala looked at the waiting wolves and motioned them to go
forward. The bandits scrambled to their feet in horror as their leader fell,
and the wolves attacked them. Zala and Elana started riding around them in
circles, aiming and shooting as the men tried to flee. A few slumped to the
ground pierced by arrows, others screamed as the wolves chomped at their hands.
Elana spotted the alpha as he clamped his powerful jaw over
a man’s wrist and with a jerk of his head, bit the hand off. And then Elana froze when she saw her mirror image
looking at her with crazed eyes.
“Tuana!” Elana yelled and urged her horse toward the
disheveled young woman.
Tuana turned her horse and kicked its side, urging the horse
to a gallop. Within seconds they collided. The horses neighed in terror as the
women were thrown off their backs by the
impact. Both women jumped to their feet and faced each other. Elana gave out
the warriors’ battle cry, raised her sword, and thrust it toward Tuana. Elana’s
move was swift, but Tuana was fast as well and leaned out of the way of the
deadly blow. As Tuana jumped back, she looked down with terror in her eyes. A gray wolf standing next to her growled and
dropped Tuana’s hand on the ground; it was still clutching the sword. The wolf
shook the blood from his muzzle, turned,
and ran toward the bushes. Tuana stared at her stump
as it spurted blood on her legs.
Tuana howled like a wounded animal and then gave out an insane
laugh as she held the stump of her arm close to her chest and started backing
away. “I curse you and your descendants! Every woman in your bloodline will
have a daughter like me who will be thrown away like garbage. The daughters
will kill their brothers and leave their sister alive to carry the bloodline.
All mothers for eternity will pay for what your mother did to me.”
Monday, July 22, 2019
Why I Write for Children
Why I Write for Children
I began my love affair with words many years ago. Some of my fondest memories are being read to as a child, visiting the library, and discovering the ability to read by myself. I still have worn copies of favourite childhood books, such as The Bobbsey Twins, Little Women, Black Beauty and Anne of Green Gables; and revisit these old friends from time to time. Books and children go together like toast and jam, in my opinion. Since I never show up without a book as a gift, my grandchildren call me, The Book Gramma.
It´s not surprising then, that I love to write for children.
While writing for children can be fun, it isn´t easy. It requires removing yourself from the adult world and think like a twenty-first century kid. Fortunately, I like to hang around kids, listen to the words they use, observe the gestures, the looks, the trends. I also enjoy reading current, children’s books to see what sparks the interest of today’s young people. Children notice things adults wouldn’t and could care less about things adults think are important. It’s necessary to get into their head space. And guess what? While I’m writing, I get to be a kid again - and I love it!
The main character in my first book, Amanda in Arabia-The Perfume Flask, is a Canadian girl who wishes for travel and adventure on her twelfth birthday. The next day she gets a ticket to fly to the United Arab Emirates to visit her aunt and uncle. There she has an adventure of a lifetime. One young reader said to me, “I want to know where Amanda will travel to next.” That motivated me to write Amanda in Spain-The Girl in The Painting.
I had so much fun writing about Amanda, her travels and escapades that I continued by writing Amanda in England-The Missing Novel.
While doing a presentation at a school, one student asked, “Why doesn´t Amanda stay in Alberta and have an adventure?”
I replied, “That´s a great idea,” and consequently wrote Amanda in Alberta – The Writing on the Stone.
Kids are always giving me ideas. I often quote things I overhear them say in my stories. They can be so clever too. Often wise beyond their years.
I recall taking the ferry to Vancouver Island one summer weekend. It was packed, mostly with families. I was pleased to see many of the children, and some of the parents, reading books. I knew that those kids would grow up to be readers and most likely read to their children one day. Studies have proven that children who are read to at a very young age, even as babies, are more likely to be successful in school and in life.
I have written two more books in the series, Amanda on the Danube – The Sounds of Music and Amanda in New Mexico – Ghosts in the Wind. Book seven, Amanda in Holland – Missing in Action is about to be released in September of 2019. I am currently working on book number eight and have ideas for others. I have to keep writing, as my fans are expecting more of Amanda’s Travels.
Although it is a lot of work, it brings me much joy to write my books as I know these fans will grow up with a love of reading and buy adult books soon. Writers of children’s books help create readers for life. It’s an important occupation and one I am happy to be a small part of.
Children who read, become adults that think.
Friday, July 19, 2019
A few considerations about positivity
”Never let go of your dreams.”
We might have seen or heard this sentence thousands of times yet, either we are too busy with our everyday life, or we are literally bombed by similar good phrases that we don’t stop and think about the meaning of such a simple statement anymore.
When generally, I need to give my best wishes to someone I love, I generally say:
Shall your destiny fulfill all your dreams, except one.
You might say, why? Why would I ever want that person not to have all her/his dreams fulfilled?
Because dreams are the fuel of our life, the energy that makes up wanting to face the day. They are the light we aim at in our darkest moments, the sparkle in our eyes, the thought that makes us smile, the force that despite the tiredness makes us increase the pace of our run to reach the finish line.
Thinking about it, conceiving a dream is like receiving a pair of wings, and the strongest the desire that attracts us to it, the bigger are the wings we create.
Think about the happiness of grabbing that dream when you achieve it.
Yes, it might even last forever, but we will miss that force; that spark that ignites our run in its direction.
Once we have it, we are at peace, and whether this is absolutely fine, the feeling of aiming at something that seems to be just there, but we can’t reach it quite yet, is fairly addictive.
We are motivated to keep on going just for the sake of that dream.
Now, of course, I am not talking about those dreams of tranquility, stability, economical safety, health. Those are basic requirements for a happy life, not just dreams.
Those are the ones I wish to be fulfilled.
Yet, I wish that little devil of a dream, which is not a question of life or death, rather it’s something even superfluous, will ignite your will and make your life an endless journey where for once you don’t enjoy the end but every single minute of it.
Besides, happiness lies in the wait of an event to happen, rather than the event itself, and the same applies to dreams.
Therefore, if there is something you are aiming to, and it seems you are never reaching it; perhaps that is the dream you need to feel alive to make your morning brighter, and the food tastier, and your darkest moment less dark.
For this reason, I wish you to keep one dream in your drawer, always there at your availability when you need to smile or to be reminded about the prize.
Thursday, July 18, 2019
Dean Banks Adventures
Dean Banks Adventures
Lorraine Carey
Everyone has a To Do List—right
But Dean Banks is just a
normal teenager until he moves to Apace Junction in Arizona with his mother and
sister to run a dilapidated inn that has a reputation as being haunted.
Take a peek at Dean’s To Do List:
· Protect the legendary Lost Dutchman Mine in the
Superstition Mountains
· Keep his newfound powers in check as a shape shifter
· Keep an eye on a mysterious red coyote
· Catch a badass burglar who robs the family inn
· Ward off some bullies who try to befriend him
· Uncover and destroy a secret government laboratory
underneath the Superstition Mountains
· Keep his girlfriend safe from an evil spirit.
But all he really wants to do is ride his dirt bike in
the desert.
Follow Dean’s adventures in
Mysteries of the Red Coyote Inn and Out of the Ashes.
An excerpt from Out of the Ashes *book 2
Chapter 7- A Dark Discovery~
Dean followed the hawk deeper into the cave and
flicked on his flashlight. He could still smell the lingering stench of the
gila. As he shined his flashlight along the walls of the cave, he could see
deep grooves where a gold vein had been extracted. Faint luminous glows were emitted
from the walls, and the ground had some fragments that had been left behind.
Dean picked up one of them; he had never seen this
type of gold before. It had a whitish cast to it and set off a weird neon glow.
He stuck a piece of it in his pocket and carried it on the path with his hawk
buddy flying ahead, signaling him to move on.
Dean entered another tunnel and walked for about
half a mile. He felt overheated so he decided to sit down and drink some water.
“Ah, I needed that!” His friend circled up ahead as if waiting for him.
Dean held his talisman in his hands as he felt it vibrate. He sensed he
was getting a message from spirit as he was in for an unexpected encounter. As he
followed the hawk, he found himself at a dead end with a strange doorway off to
the left. It was a large iron door, medieval-style with heavy black bars and
laden with black iron bolts.
“Okay, now what? I’m supposed to know some magic words to open them?” He
noticed the hawk circle his head three times and with a whoosh, it was gone.
Dean sat down to make some sense out of this. Let me think, I‘ve been cornered by a giant Gila monster, am aware of
pillaging for gold, and have not shifted? What gives, Elders?
He sensed a cool breeze coming from behind him. He turned around and
noticed a white glowing apparition, one that he was all too familiar with.
Soon the lady in white materialized. He knew who she was – Aponi;
dressed in her usual white flowing dress, the sheer veil covering her face. The
breeze again caused the beads and shells that dangled from her dress to click
and tingle, like tiny bells.
“Hello, Dean,” she murmured. “I’ve come to warn you that evil is upon
you. I’m sure you’ve sensed that yourself. Be on guard, as you will find your
enemies are very close at hand now.
Remember, all is not what it seems.”
She faded out slowly, and then vanished.
“Wait! Don’t go!” Dean called out, but it was too late.
Dean stood up and felt his body overheating again. He could feel the
blood course through his veins, making them bulge. He watched the ones in his
arms become so defined he resembled the transparent human body models they used
in his science class. Soon he could see the muscles in his arms triple in size
as they inflated and ripped through his t-shirt. “What the hell? Now I’m the
Hulk?”
Enjoy the book
trailer~
Both books
can be found in eBook and print on Amazon.
Wednesday, July 17, 2019
Partner or Inferior?
Where is the woman's place?
I still hear these opinions, not only from older men but from younger ones as well:
"Women are inferior to men because Eve was made from Adam's ribs, therefore, she belongs to him. Eve doomed humanity by committing a sin which by enticing Adam to eat the apple."
"A woman's brain is incapable of making rational decisions because she can't comprehend to the big picture."
"A woman should focus on raising kids, doing laundry, obey their husbands, and provide clean and comfortable homes for their families."
"We must keep women submissive because with equal rights comes chaos. They need constant reminders that their place is in the home."
"Women don't have the intelligence to make rational decisions because they're too emotional. Men must make decisions for women."
Right! My opinion?
These neanderthals need to hide under their comfy stones and be very, very quiet!
What say you?
We're getting there
Slowly, but with good parenting and setting good examples to our kids, we're getting there.
Example 1:
A salesman calls trying to sell windows. The woman say politely, "Thank you for your call but we're not planning to install new wind..."
The aggressive salesman rudely cuts her off and says, "Is the man of the house home?"
The woman's blood instantly boils but because she's a gentle person, she doesn't reply and hands the phone to her husband,"This bozo is selling windows and wants to talk to you."
The husband takes the phone and says to the salesman, "Listen! My wife is the financial genius in this house. She said no. Good bye!"
Example 2:
A man visits a couple for the first time and as soon as he's introduced to the attractive wife by the husband, he walks up to her attempting to pinch her face and says, "Aren't you a pretty thing!"
The couple's teenage kids watch the interaction.
The woman takes a step back and shouts, "Out! Don't you ever step into this house again!"
The man looks at the husband who opens the door and says to him, "My wife is my partner and you've disrespected her. get out, or I'll throw you out!"
Example 3:
Father and son sitting on a bench in the park. The boy is around twelve, happily licking his ice-cream.
A statuesque woman walks by and the father says to his son, "Nice piece of ass, huh?"
The boy looks at his father with a disgusted expression on his face and replies, "Dad, she's a person. You're an ass!"
Equal partners
It's about time to teach our sons and daughter that this is not a competition. Neither men or women need to prove who's better, smarter, or stronger.Biologically and psychologically men and women have similarities and differences as well. The best thing about this is that we complement each other and able to form a great partnership by mutually accepting and respecting each other.
What is your opinion?
Tuesday, July 16, 2019
Sir E. Robert Smythe and the Lost Detective
Sir E. Robert Smythe and the Lost Detective
Christina Weigand
Sir E. Robert Smythe and the Lost Detective
During summer vacation, while Anna and her brother Ben, along
with Bridget and her brother, Sam, are participating in the Summer Reading
Adventure at the local library, the town council announces they are building
low-income housing for the homeless. While the housing is being constructed a
tent community has been established on an old soccer field on the other side of
a haunted swamp. Sam is upset by this turn of events, but his anger is only
beginning.
In the meantime, unbeknownst to them, the girls befriend Zoe,
one of the homeless people living in the tents. The girls spend time together
tracking down clues supplied by the books they are borrowing from the library
that will eventually lead to a prize at the end of the Summer Reading
Adventure.
When Bridget and Sam’s grandfather dies in a tragic car
accident Sam’s anger increases when it is discovered that Zoe’s father was the
drunk driver in the truck that crashed into his grandfather’s car. The family
lawyer reveals in the will that the farm and house have been left to the
community to build low income housing for the homeless.
Sam’s anger reaches a boiling point and he directs it at Zoe,
hatching a plan to get back at the people he thinks are taking away everything
he holds dear.
Title Sir E. Robert
Smythe and the Lost Detective
Author Christina
Weigand Created by Ricci Moore
Genre Middle-Grade
Fantasy
Release November 2017
Designer Charlotte
Volnek
Length 95 pages
ISBN ebook
978-1-77127-961-1 Paperback coming soon
Excerpt
Eleven-year-old Zoe Jones unzipped the 8’ X 10’ tent door that
she, her mother and her Labrador puppy lived in, really just slept in. There
wasn’t enough room to do anything more than that. She wished they hadn’t had to
leave their house at all, but with Daddy gone, there had been no choice. At
least they hadn’t moved until school was finished so there was a place to do
her schoolwork.
After finishing her breakfast in the large dining tent set up
by the town for the homeless people to get a hot meal Zoe walked back to their
tent. It was time for her and mom to walk to the bakery where Zoe would spend
the day while her mother went to work in the city. The sky was blue, with
fluffy light clouds, so that meant no rain today while they walked to town.
After entering the tent she kneeled and crawled to her cot to brush her hair
and pet the dog in his kennel one more time before they left.
“Momma, how much longer do we have to stay here? It isn’t fun
anymore, not like the camping trip we took with Daddy last year. I want to go
home,” Zoe said.
The brown and white puppy whined. “Buster doesn’t like being
in his kennel so much, and he misses his training sessions,” Zoe said.
“Zoe, you know we aren’t going back home. We can’t let Buster
run around while we live here. Now hurry up and finish getting ready. We have
to get to the park. I need to catch my bus,” Zoe’s mom said.
Zoe finished brushing her short, red hair. “Do I have to go
today? Can’t I just stay here? Buster will watch out for me.”
“No, you can’t stay here by yourself. Mrs. Reilley, the lady
at the bakery, will keep an eye on you while I go to work.”
Zoe picked up a bag with library books and gave Buster a dog
biscuit. “Maybe I’ll meet someone at the park today.”
“That’s the spirit. Isn’t the Reading Club Kick-off carnival
today?” Zoe’s mom asked as they exited their mid-size tent.
Zoe glanced around the homeless camp. It was terrible living
here. There were only a couple of children in the fifty tent encampment and
they weren’t her age. There was no one to play with. She wrinkled her nose,
because in spite of the fact that they were able to use the restrooms and the
limited kitchen facilities of the soccer field, the camp still smelled of
unwashed bodies and human waste. A garbage dump was set up outside the camp,
and the trash was picked up once a week, but that didn’t completely eliminate
the smell from fifty families’ trash. Her mother had explained that there were
very strict rules for keeping the camp clean, but Zoe didn’t think they were
much help. “Yeah, I think so,” Zoe said, answering her mother’s question.
As they walked past Gullies Swamp, Zoe rummaged through her
bag. “Oh no, I forgot one of my books. Can we run back and get it?”
“No. If we go back I’ll miss my bus. Can’t you just bring it
tomorrow?”
“It’s due today. They’ll fine us. I’ll just run back and get
it.”
“Okay, just be careful and don’t talk to anybody. I’ll see you
after work. Meet me at the bus stop at 6:00 and we can walk home together. Now
you behave yourself with Mrs. Reilley and enjoy the carnival. Don’t eat too
many of the baked goods.”
“All right. Love you, mom.” Zoe kissed her mom on the cheek
and ran back to the camp.
The book was on her cot in the tent. Picking it up quickly,
she headed back to the park. Passing the swamp, she noticed Morton the Morph,
the yellow toad-like creature and his small blue pear-shaped panngoes playing
on the edge of the swamp. One of the panngoes bounced into the swamp.
“Hey, you guys shouldn’t go in there,” Zoe yelled.
“Oh, don’t worry about them. They’ll be fine. Just a bunch of
panngoes,” Morton answered as more of the creatures bounced into the swamp.
Zoe heard some dogs barking and one of the panngoes squealing.
“One of them might be hurt. Shouldn’t you go in there and check on them?” She
heard another sound, children talking and laughing. “Oh no, someone’s coming. I
have to hide. Mamma doesn’t want me to talk to any strangers.” She glanced around
trying to find a spot to hide then looked at the panngoes. She immediately ran
to them and straight into the swamp.
One of the bigger ones had fallen in a hole and was calling
out for the others to help him. Zoe followed the sound of the crying.
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Friday, July 12, 2019
Hometown Memories
LETCHWORTH STATE PARK
THE GRAND CANYON OF THE EAST
Jonathan Lee |
Jesse Crowden |
Peter Anuszkiewicz |
Dan Rittenhouse |
Eli De'Enn |
So, what exactly is Letchworth that makes it stand out? It is a 14,427-acre park (about 17 miles long) located in Eastern Upstate New York. It follows the path of the Genesee River as it travels north to its outlet Lake Ontario near Rochester. With canyon cliffs as high as 600 feet, it is often referred to as "The Grand Canyon Of The East". The northern end is marked by Mount Morris Dam which helps thwart the chance of flooding. There are nearly 50 waterfalls located within the park with three major ones (Upper, Middle and Lower Falls) located in the southern end.
Marian Carloni |
Phil Conroy |
Jeanne Mcnarmara |
Jack Geising |
I feel a connection to the river. My troubles seem to fade away with the flow. I can almost feel the gloom being purged from my heart as the water cascades over the falls, the spray on my skin refreshing my soul.
From the thundering power of the three main falls, to the tinkling of those along the tributaries, the music of nature frees me.
Ryan Yo-nv Schmidt |
Ryan Yo-nv Schmidt kindly shared this gorgeous shot and several other pictures of the falls. I gathered them into a short slide show, click on the link to enjoy some beautiful views.
https://docs.google.com/presentation
I am thrilled to be able to share these many pictures with you. They were all provided by members of the Facebook group Letchworth State Park Lovers (https://www.facebook.com/groups/2218333570/) If you like what you see here, be sure to visit them on Facebook, they have many more beautiful scenes to share. I find the pictures take me back in time and I am able to relive, re-experience this wonderful paradise.
Remember to check out my next piece where I visit Lower and Middle Falls.
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Thursday, July 11, 2019
Plants, Birds, and Beavers Grow and Change
Daddy, why is Fido getting old?
Mommy, why can’t I stay a kid forever?
Sometimes kids ask questions that can catch you off guard. Having a talk about the necessity of change and the circle of life can be difficult. That’s why I’ve written my Changes duet, to help open up little minds to understanding the nature of change.
Meant for educational purposes, but still, an enjoyable light and colorful read, Plants and Animals Change Over Time, explains the circle of life in the simplest terms. It follows the life of a seedling and an unhatched egg to full maturity and beyond. You may also want to check out, Land Changes Over Time, to learn how the world is reshaped around us.
Daddy, what is change anyway?
Mommy, does change have to happen to me?
Sometimes kids ask questions that can catch you off guard. Having a talk about the necessity and inevitability of change can be difficult. That’s why I’ve written my Changes duet, to help open up little minds to understanding the nature of change.
Meant for educational purposes, but still an enjoyable light and colorful read, Land Changes Over Time, explores how the world is reshaped around us. It chronicles the results of beavers, worms, and birds moving into an empty meadow. You may also want to check out, Plants and Animals Change Over Time, to learn about the circle of life.
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Wednesday, July 10, 2019
Recipe for the Inner Child
RECIPE FOR THE INNER CHILD:
CLOUD ANIMALS, TEA PARTIES AND HULAS
Christina Weigand
Several years ago I wrote this article when my youngest daughter was on her way to pre-kindergarten. Now I have an eighteen year old ready to head off to college. With little time to write a new article and an opportunity to reminisce I found this post. With the impending onslaught of family and celebrations I thought it was a good time to remember the message in this post.
A funny, wonderful thing has been surreptitiously happening to
me this summer. I have been
rediscovering my inner child, with the help of a four year old and a two year
old. When you have Ana and Andi in your
life it becomes impossible to ignore your inner child. So with God by my side, this summer has
become the summer of release for my inner child.
It started innocently enough one early summer evening, while
trying to rest from a days hectic activities.
I was craving some hard won privacy.
With so many people living in my house including a 24 year old, 21 year
old, 4 year old and 2 year old, besides my husband and I, privacy is a rare
commodity. Before the birth of my four
year old we had been on the verge of having an empty nest. I was almost finished with raising my first
three children, graduated from college, and my husband and I were still young
and enjoying the freedom that comes with having grown children.
Image by Rudy and Peter Skitterians from Pixabay |
So now I am laying her in the early evening sun, trying to
relax and recover from a hectic day.
Meeting the needs of my two year old granddaughter and four and 21 year
old daughters has left me little time for anything including prayer. Finally I have a few minutes of peace,
although I’m not completely alone.
Nearby, two year old, Andi plays in her playhouse. Soon she wanders off to find her mother. I breathe a deep sigh, “At last, I am
alone.” The television show in the
family room ends and I hear footsteps heading toward the door. So much for my peace. Ana, my four year old daughter, comes
bursting through the screen door and jumps into my chaise lounge. “Mommy, look there are clouds in the
sky. I see animals.” Reluctantly I open one eye. I don’t see any animals.
“Mommy, look. There’s a
tiger. No, it’s an elephant.”
My other eye opens. I
still see only white puffy clouds. Ana
pops up and heads off to play with something else and I close my eyes again.
Ana wanted to look at
clouds. I had let the chance get
away. I had become so self absorbed in
recovering from the adult issues of the day and I had refused to let my inner
child come out and play with Ana. During
the last 20 years of my life I had fallen easily into the pattern of being an
adult and bottling up my inner child, because I had no small children in my
life. I did what comes naturally as your
children grow up. I had grown up along
with the kids. Even when Ana was a
newborn I struggled with my inner child.
I was still dealing with the issues of my older children and ensuring
that my newborn was healthy and happy, the inner child stayed locked up.
Now that Ana is a little older and Andi is moving into the
curious years, my inner child has stepped up the battle. So as Ana walked away on that summer evening,
I opened both of my eyes and looked to the clouds and ended up finding an
elephant or two in the clouds.
It’s 10:00 p.m. Ana
should be in bed. She has a cold and got
up early for school this morning. The
uptight adult is talking here.
Image by Janice Brown from Pixabay |
“Quiet, get back, down, down!”
Ana wants to have a tea party. We
have hot soup, spaghetti and chili. Then
we put on an Easter hat and Hawaiian lei and do the hula. My inner child is happy and Ana is
happy. Plenty of time tomorrow for the
uptight adult. Tonight the inner child
will play.
Image by skeeze from Pixabay |
The whole summer went
like this, when I least expected it and needed it most Ana or Andi, would
gently awaken the inner child and ask her to come out and play. There would be tickle fights, cloud watching,
tea parties and seeing everyday things through new eyes, where fluffy white clouds
become dragons and castles, blankets become tents or ball gowns and mixing
bowls become crowns.
Image by Iris Hamelmann from Pixabay |
With the start of fall and pre-kindergarten, I feared losing
the magic. Not so with Ana and
Andi. The new season has only supplied
more inspiration to feed the magic. Last
week Ana and I went on a field trip to a local apple orchard. While there I learned a few things about
apples I had never known. Of course Ana
was in heaven as this was a whole new experience for her. Walking through the gift shop, market and
green house, the world became a giant playground. The toys along with the other merchandise in
the gift shop tickled her fancy. The
different animals around the farmyard fed her vivid imagination, especially the
very large pig. Questions like, did he
walk and how did he walk on those little legs sprang from her hungry little
mind. Choosing apples and vegetables
from the market was an adventure and choosing the right colored mums from the
greenhouse bordered on overload, there were so many to choose from. The word “WOW”, a most wondrous word, was
heard coming from her mouth at least a hundred times. With every new sight it was uttered.
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Another thing we have taken to doing about once a week since
school started, is stopping in a local park on our way home from school and
visiting the ducks. Ana loves to run
around the island and see what the ducks are doing. Today when we stopped we got two
bonuses. The first was a couple men
fishing on the island. It was difficult
to contain her excitement and to explain being quiet and patient so the
gentlemen could fish. Once we got past
them and found the ducks we got to be observers to the mating ritual of
ducks. The squawking, diving and
preening of the male ducks was fascinating to watch. To Ana the ducks were playing and she wanted
to know what they were saying and doing.
Little did she know that what she observed today will lead to the new
baby ducks we will see next spring.
With autumn upon us and winter quickly approaching Ana, Andi
and I will need to find new outlets for our imaginations, but I’m sure God will
continue to provide them for us as Ana and Andi discover His big, wonderful
world.
Ana and Andi have taught me and continue daily to remind me
what a wonderful precious world God created.
I now look at God’s world through a child’s eyes. Suddenly the newness and excitement has once
again made an appearance in my perceptions.
Jesus tells us, “Let the little children come to me. Do not shut them off. The reign of God belongs to such as
these. Trust me when I tell you that
whoever does not accept the kingdom of God as a child will not enter into it.”
(Luke 18: 16-17, NAB)
It seems to me, all adults need to release their inner
children. The world becomes a much more
special place when seen with the eyes of a child. I am so thankful to have Ana
and Andi in my life and I feel honored that God has chosen me to share their
lives. So my inner child has escaped and
I see the world through new eyes. Thank
you God, and pumpkins, turkeys and snowballs here we come.
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