Showing posts with label fate. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fate. Show all posts

Saturday, February 28, 2026

Why do Bad Things come in Threes?

 When three becomes ominous instead of sacred

Many cultures fear the number three because it sits at a crossroads: a number loaded with sacred power, balance, and cosmic completeness — which paradoxically makes it feel dangerous when that balance breaks. The fear isn’t universal, but the tension around three is.

Why three feels powerful, and therefore risky
Across civilizations, three is treated as a number of completion, divinity, and cosmic order.
That very power can make it feel volatile when invoked in the wrong context.

In many traditions, three represents a divine triad
The Christian Trinity, the Hindu Trimurti, the Egyptian Osiris–Isis–Horus triad. These structures frame three as a complete cycle of creation, preservation, and destruction. 

The Pythagoreans called three the first true number, symbolizing harmony and stability. 

Because it symbolizes wholeness, breaking or misusing the triad can feel like courting imbalance — a subtle root of superstition.

This duality, sacred and precarious, is the soil where fear grows.

The superstition that misfortune arrives in threes is widespread, even in modern Western culture.
It persists for three major reasons:

Humans are wired to find patterns, especially in chaos. When two bad events happen, the mind expects a third to complete the pattern. 

Stories across cultures rely on triads — three trials, three wishes, three warnings.
This narrative rhythm conditions people to expect events in sets of three. 

3. Historical superstition
One theory traces a specific fear — “three on a match” — to wartime, where lighting three cigarettes from one match supposedly gave snipers enough time to aim.   
Even if apocryphal, it reinforced the idea that the third action is the dangerous one.

When three becomes ominous instead of sacred
In many cultures, three is revered, but reverence can flip into taboo when:

A triad is broken (two without the third feels incomplete or unlucky).

Three marks a threshold: the third knock, the third omen, the third death.

Three symbolizes cycles, and cycles can include endings, not just beginnings.

This is why some traditions treat the third repetition of an action as magically charged, either protective or perilous.

Three often marks the moment when something shifts:

The first event is coincidence.

The second is pattern.

The third is fate.

That sense of fate, of crossing from randomness into meaning, is what many cultures fear.
Three is the moment the universe seems to speak.
Author of fiction and children's books

Thursday, August 21, 2025

Do You Feel Lucky?

 Why do we feel lucky?


We tend to consider ourselves lucky when something desirable happens that feels out of our control, as if fate gave us a wink. Luck is often the name we give to the gap between effort and outcome, especially when the outcome exceeds expectations.

When do we feel lucky? When Chance Favors Us

Winning something: 

Avoiding misfortune: 
Missing a car accident by seconds because you stepped back to check the stove or coffee maker, or finding out you dodged a bad investment.

Arriving just as the last seat is available, or meeting someone special by pure coincidence.

When Effort Meets Unexpected Reward:
Getting a job offer after a casual conversation.

Receiving help when you didn’t ask: 
A friend you didn't see for months shows up just when you need them.

Finding something valuable without searching: 
Like stumbling on a rare book or painting at a yard sale, or stumbling upon a dream job advertisement.

When Perspective Shifts

You realize how good you have it compared to what could’ve been. Living in a peaceful country, when watch videos of dying people and starving children in warzones.

Surviving hardship: 
Looking back, you feel lucky to have made it through a long surgery after an accident and you feel lucky that the surgeon was able to save your leg.

Being born into certain circumstances: 
Health, safety, education, things we didn’t choose but benefit from.

Luck is often a story we tell ourselves to make sense of randomness. But it’s also a feeling, a mix of surprise, relief, and joy. Sometimes we say “I’m lucky” not because the odds were in our favor, but because we feel deeply grateful.

Do you feel lucky?