Showing posts with label #Lifewithdogs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #Lifewithdogs. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 25, 2019

Missing by Rick Haynes

Missing


My life was as empty as a cracked piss-pot. And with each day merging into the next I had no idea of time. With my best friend, Cissy, missing, my world had collapsed. The taste of any food was like chewing cardboard. It made me retch, but being so weak, I had to force myself to eat something. Eventually, I opened a can of baked beans; with hot sauce the taste was palatable. Starving to death was no longer an option but I still cried every day. 

Why did she disappear? Is she still alive? How did I allow this to happen? No matter what I thought, the idea of me being responsible never left me. Trips to her favourite place, attaching posters to telegraph poles and placing pictures in shop windows, all failed to produce any results. Even the police showed little interest.

A week passed. The telephone rang. A man with a deep voice spoke in harsh tones. His English was poor and he frequently repeated himself. He demanded money. I was worried about how Cissy was coping without her medication and without thinking, I instantly agreed to his demands. He gave me specific directions about where and when we should meet and I was warned that Cissy would die if I didn’t comply. The bank asked questions about my withdrawal of £1000 in cash, but my insistence paid off.

The relief in knowing that Cissy lived was like a lottery win that didn’t exist. I was overjoyed she was safe, yet terrified I’d never see her again if I made a cock up. I imagined she was tied up, blindfolded, perhaps tortured. Nothing else mattered. My lass had disappeared and as long as I followed the instructions, all would be well.

Going over his directions one last time, I set out to be reunited with my beloved, Cissy.

The clouds had finally decided to play elsewhere. After my long climb through the forest, I could now see the top of the disused lighthouse. Inhaling deeply, I took in the clean air lightly scented with salt. Weathered steps of stone curled around the stone colossus but that wasn’t the route I was instructed to take. Looking to the right, I saw another track overgrown with thick bushes and low slung branches.

Once more my mind wandered. Would she be waiting? Would she be unharmed? It was time to make the last ascent. Slowly, like an old man in fear of falling, I placed one foot in front of the other and followed the track towards my destiny.

A shaft of light arrowed through the greenery before instantly disappearing. Would it be my star of hope? Without thinking, I quickened my pace. Calling her name made me want to believe she would greet me at the summit. Faster, I told myself as I ploughed on. The treeline ended and all trace of the shadows vanished as a sunray illuminated the small clearing in front of me.

And there she was, securely tied to an old tree. I looked around, saw the empty bag, placed the cash inside, untied Cissy, picked her up in my arms, kissed her and quickly retraced my steps. Little did the kidnapper know I had left a tracer inside the bag and spread a little poison over the notes.

Rot in hell, I mumbled as I walked back down the slope.

No one steals my dog, my best friend, Cissy, and gets away with the crime.

Tuesday, August 21, 2018

It’s Just a dog…And that’s what makes them so extraordinary, Part 2 ~ by Joanne Jaytanie

This series is about sharing my friend’s thoughts, a bit of their lives, and the impressions they’ve made along the way. In conjunction with telling you a little something about the role my dogs have played in my life and how they influenced my decision in becoming an author.

As I mentioned in part one of this series, each of my Dobermans represents different times in my life. Today, I’m focusing on my first male, Dax. 

In late 1994, my husband, Ralph, and I decided we wanted a red male. I’d been training and showing in obedience and Ralph wanted a dog he could train. We searched the state for a breeder and found, Elaine Hopper of Starlaine Kennels. Dax came into our lives in 1995 and opened the door to the world of conformation, otherwise known as the breed ring. He was a truly amazing dog and gave his entire heart and soul to us. 
~ DAX ~
American/International Champion Starlaine's Virtual Reality, CD, NA, NAJ, ROM
1995 ~ 2000

Over the last fifty years, I have owned and trained many dogs, including labs, malamutes, spaniels, setters, and boxers. However, until I found Dax, I had never had a dog touch my soul in the way he did. 

We spent nearly every day together. When I was at my desk he would push his way around my chair to lay under my desk until I was finished. He would do anything for a Frisbee and a stick.  For one of our games, I would put him on a sit-stay on one side of the house, walk around to the other side and hide a stick with my scent on it, then call him to “find it.” It was amazing to watch him find the “scent cone” and zero in on the stick.

On the few occasions that I would leave the house without him, when I returned I would call out for “my big boy” as I opened the door. I had better be ready, ‘cause he was’a comin’.

Dax was my best friend and true companion.  ~ Ralph Duncan

Not only did Dax come into our lives at that time, but so did Elaine. Elaine is a dear friend and is always willing to help and support us. She taught me many things about the showing, like how to groom a Doberman for the show ring – yes, they do need to be groomed. I’ve traveled with her to many shows and have tons of cherished memories. Today’s guest is Elaine Hopper.

Me:  Elaine, please tell us about your history in dogs?

Elaine:  Since I was small I have always had a dog in my life, but I fell in love with the Doberman breed in particular. A friend of my mother's had a Doberman when I was about 12 and I really loved that dog. Since that time, I always wanted one of my own. I got my first Doberman in my 20’s when I shared a house with a friend. I didn’t have a lot of money then, so I got her from the paper. From there, I started taking obedience classes and decided to join the local Doberman club where I learned a lot more about the breed, dogs in general and met many of the local show folks. 

I got a second Doberman from a local breeder and showed him to his championship and several obedience titles. I became hooked on not only the breed but also conformation training and showing as well as the thought of having a litter one day. 

My first litter became a reality in 1995.  I started showing my own dogs as well as those belonging to others. Over the years I have had many successes and have traveled all over the country competing. I have continued to serve the local Doberman club in many ways, including holding numerous board positions. I also serve on the board of the national breed club, the Doberman Pinscher Club of America. To date, I have handled many dogs of all breeds to championship titles and I have bred 30 Doberman champions under my kennel prefix of Starlaine. In addition to Dobermans, I have also become involved with whippets. I have owned several and bred three litters that produced multi-titled puppies. 

Me:  You’re involved in numerous clubs and activities. You donate a large amount of your time to shepherding/supporting our breed. Please tell us about this.

Elaine:  I have held every officer and board position in the local club, the Puget Sound Doberman Pinscher Club, and I have been a member for 30 plus years. I have held numerous committee positions as well, and currently I am in charge of heart testing equipment owned by the club that members can use to health screen their dogs. I have also involved our club in community service activities. Most recently, we donated pet resuscitation and training equipment to two local fire departments. This, in particular, I find extremely rewarding, giving back to the community and highlighting the activities of our club and representing the breed as a whole. 

I started the same health screening holter program at the national level and I currently serve as the Second Vice President of the Doberman Pinscher Club of America, which not only aims to protect the breed but is also involved in public education and donations to health research. 

Me:  You have been involved in holtering for as long as I can remember. Could you please explain why this is an important health practice and what it could contribute to our Dobermans in the future?

Elaine:  The holter is a heart monitor that is attached to the dog for a 24-hour period. The holter records heartbeat activity; in particular any irregularities, something that is a problem in the Doberman breed.

I first started doing this test back in the early 90s through a university program. Since then, the use of holters has increased significantly as more owners and breeders have realized the benefit of screening their animals so  issues can be detected and treated early, or breeding animals with indications of disease can be removed from the breeding pool before they can pass on problems to their offspring. 

I believe very strongly that as breeders, owners, and custodians of the breed we need to do everything we can to eliminate disease or at the very least make sure our breeding animals are completely healthy to give the next generation the best possible life. 

Me:  What are your goals with regards to breeding?

Elaine:  My goal always has been to produce not only beautiful animals, but animals that are healthy and live as long of a life as possible. I also want to make sure I carefully select for temperament so that dogs I breed are good ambassadors for the Doberman breed as well as loving, stable companions. 

Me:  What part do your dogs play in your life?

Elaine:  They pretty much are my life. I spend countless hours working with them and doing training. I also attend many shows a year showing my own dogs, dogs I bred, or those of clients that have contracted for my handling services. I have met so many wonderful people throughout the years that are as involved as I am with Dobermans, or dogs in general, and I am happy to say I have dear friends all over the US as well as outside the states because of my involvement with dogs. I would not trade these experiences or friendships for anything. 

Me:  Do you ever picture yourself without a dog?

Elaine:  No, I really don’t. They play such an integral part of my life and are such wonderful companions. I really do not ever foresee being without one. 
Me:  Without using the word, love, please describe what your dogs mean to you, in no more than 2 sentences. In other words, what you are describing is your definition of Love.

Elaine:  My dogs represent companionship, security and unconditional devotion. 

To find out more about Elaine, her dogs, and the breeds in general,
visit her website

As I mentioned in part one, my dogs played a major role in the turning point between which of the two career paths I would choose to follow. 

When we were showing Dax, we spent at least two weekends a month at a dog show. We purchased a travel-trailer, packed it up, loaded the dogs into the van, and traveled the west coast. We made lots of new friends and had a great time submerged in the world of dog shows.  So much so, that I was thinking about working towards becoming a judge.

I’d been working as the administrator with Ralph in our forensic engineering, accident reconstruction company. We decided to shut down that business when he was offered a position back into the marine engineering. 

I was at a turning point. I always wanted to write. I’d written in journals for years. But part of me still wanted to become a conformation judge. Dogs were my life and I wanted them included in whatever I chose to do. Then, I realized this was my opportunity to do what I'd always wanted to do – write. And, if I didn’t start immediately, I would never have the chance again. I started jotting down ideas for my first book that same day.

A few days later, I was sitting in the living room, Captain, my second red male, was by my side. I had the bits and pieces of the book I wanted to write, but something was missing, and I couldn’t for the life of me figure out what. I was petting Captain and talking to him about my problem, having long conversations with my dogs was an everyday occurrence. Captain laid his head on my leg and it came to me – I needed to include my dogs in this book. It was at that moment the words finally started to flow, and The Winters Sisters began to take shape. I had my idea and it came in the form of the love of my dogs. 
But even with this idea, I didn’t feel like my heroine was complete. She needed something to make her special…In part three of this series, I will share with you how my heroine, Victory came to life. 
As I mentioned before the Dobermans on my book covers are my own dogs. It felt right to put Dax on my first book.

I have my written memories of Dax, over three pages of words and not nearly enough. But here are the ones that stand out when I think of my beautiful red boy, my Dax Man, my Daxeroo…

Dax loved his Frisbee, but he lived for his dad. 

The last picture of Dax I will always hold in my mind is of him and Ralph playing tug across the lawn on the waterfront. It was mid-morning. From the distance I was standing, they were both just silhouettes. Dax trotted across the grass and he looked like the young dog I remembered just two short years ago.

He was a special dog and the pain we feel from his loss is almost unbearable. There will never be another DAX. My only regret was that he was here with us for all too short a time….

Watch for part 3, on September 25th.

Until next time….
Joanne 

You can find me here:
Joanne's Website     facebook     Amazon Author Page      Twitter      Pinterest

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Erika M Szabo

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What a lovely post Joanne! I never had a Doberman, but a friend had a black male, Crow, for over ten years. Dobermans are majestic, smart, and very loyal.
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Thank you, Erika. Dobes are extremely loyal. As a personal protection dog it was bred into them. They love and protect their people above their own survival.

Tricia Drammeh via Google+

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Excellent post on #OurAuthorGang
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Thanks so much, Tricia.

Ruth de Jauregui via Google+

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Joanne Jaytanie-Duncan​ shares her beautiful story of her dog, Dax, and how he inspired her in her writing. <3 #OurAuthorGang
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Ruth de Jauregui

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What a lovely and loving tribute to your beautiful dog!! I love how he inspired you. <3
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Today on #OurAuthorGang, author Joanne Jaytanie-Duncan​ talks about her love of dogs and how one in particular helped inspire her to write.
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Joe Bonadonna

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This is wonderful, Joanne! Animals, and especially dogs, are always a source of great inspiration. Their unconditional love speaks volumes all on its own.
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Thank you, Joe. I totally agree, dogs can inspire a variety of things.
 
+Joanne Jaytanie -- you're welcome!

Joanne Jaytanie via Google+

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Part 2 in my series of the Dobermans in my life and what they mean to me. I'm hosting a guest for each post. Please stop by and find out what dogs mean in Elaine Hopper's world. #OurAuthorGang
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Rebecca Tran

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Find out how dogs inspire writers too on #OurAuthorGang  
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Rebecca Tran

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Dogs really are man's best friend. I'm so glad you've had great dogs in your life. Great post.
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Thank you, Rebecca. I was very blessed with amazing companions.

Grace Au

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Love the photos, especially of Ralph with Dax. I wish I'd have know that special pup. Thanks for sharing from your heart about something that is so dear to you.
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You would have loved, Dax. He was a lover, but also intimidating. No one messed with him. But if you were his friend he was loyal to the end. I wish I had a picture of him running through the field playing with Noel's aussies. It was really a sight to behold. One of them barreled him over, and Dax took it all in stride.

Nikki McDonagh

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Lovely, emotional post. It's so good to read about people who care deeply for animals in this world of hatred and abuse.
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Thank you, Nikki. I'm with you, no animal should be abused, ever, for any reason.

Chris Weigand

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Great post.
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Thanks Chris.

Chris Weigand via Google+

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Joanne Jaytanie shares more about her love of dogs.
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Toi Thomas

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I've always thought Dobermans to be so elegant. Nice to know they are also loveable. I love these posts, Joanne. Thanks for sharing them.
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Thank you, Toi. Dobermans are very elegant and they are the biggest goof balls.

Toi Thomas via Google+

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Today, Joanne Jaytanie-Duncan tells us about her beloved Dax and introduces us to Doberman lover Elaine Hopper. #OurAuthorGang
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Lorraine Carey via Google+

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The Woman Who Loved Dobermans. #dogs #Dobermans #blogs #OurAuthorGang
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Always. Thanks, Lorraine.
 
+Joanne Jaytanie My pleasure xx

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Lorraine Carey

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Your love for your dogs is just beautiful. What a heartfelt post. Lots of great information here for those who might be interested in getting a Doberman. They sound like great dogs. I love how you include them in your stories. They are surely your muse. I really enjoyed your post today, Joanne.
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Thank you so much. I really appreciate it, Lorraine.
 
+Joanne Jaytanie My pleasure. I'm a dog lover as well.




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