Sunday, December 16, 2018

Christmas and the Lost Time

Christmas celebration
by PJ Mann

We all love the Christmas holidays, regardless the belief, it is a time when we look around and feel inspired with the meaning of being together, at peace, and understand what is really important in life.
Christmas celebration has a very long tradition, it falls far before Christianity, but the meaning has never changed, and it is an invitation to open your heart to the others, like a memento of what life should be really about.

One example is the celebration for the Saturnalia from the 17th to the 23rd of December during the Roman Empire, a holiday dedicated to Saturnus.
During this period there were sacrifices made in the temples dedicated to Saturn, public banquets and carnival-like celebrations on the streets of Rome.

The masters prepared a banquet for their slaves, as a token of appreciation for their loyalty, and those were free to speak their mind about their masters without fearing any punishment.
They exchanged gifts and tried to give and receive happiness.

That sounds much like what we are doing today doesn't it?
Regardless of the history and the practices, beliefs or non-beliefs, this is a period to share good feelings, to promise a better future, to ask forgiveness for the times we have not been so kind to our neighbors and give forgiveness.


Nowadays, Christmas still keeps its meaning, but it has become a sort of obsessive run against the time to get the perfect gift for our dear ones and prepare the menu for the dinners/lunches. The peace of the period is spoiled by the contrasting hurry at our working place because December is the month that closes the fiscal year, so all the projects have to be concluded, sent and archived.
This means that before leaving for the Christmas holidays, we need to push our working schedule like crazy. Of course, this also means that our free time is drastically reduced to a few hours where we are supposed to take care of the ordinary chores at home, and the extra preparation for the incoming holidays.

Let's then not talk about the case when children are involved. Families with small children in this period are subjected to an extra amount of stress, and then the holidays resemble more a curse than a blessing.

So long peace!

This means that Christmas has slowly transformed into a run against the time, but where are we supposed to get some extra time to fulfill all our schedules?
Whoever has an answer, is kindly requested to share it with the whole world, so that we can award him/her with the Nobel prize for peace next year.

Nevertheless, there is a reward in all this stress. That is when finally we seat at the dinner table, and finally, we can enjoy the company of our dear ones.
We can take off our shoes, and with a content smile, we look around at the happy faces of the people that make all this run worth.


Now we can finally enjoy it!
Have a Merry Christmas or peaceful holidays, whatever your beliefs are!

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Tricia Drammeh

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Great article! My daughter and I were recently discussing how stressful the holidays have become. Like you said here, it really does feel like a race against time to get everything done. We get so focused on making everything perfect we forget how to enjoy the holidays. Merry Christmas to you, PJ. I hope you have a relaxing and fulfilling holiday season.
 
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PJ Mann talks about Christmas traditions and how today's holiday celebrations have changed.
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Patty MacFarlane

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With the exception of hoodies, warm socks, and gloves which my boys have come to expect (and are thrilled to get) every Christmas, I prefer to give very special gifts that can become keepsakes. To eliminate some of the stress, I begin shopping in January. When packages arrive I stash them in my secret closet. I can't tell you how much stress and money that saves me because it keeps me out of the stores...I'm a bit of an impulse buyer. Since all my kids are grown with big families of their own, we often don't all get together on Christmas day but see each other and exchange gifts between Christmas and the Feast of the Epiphany. I usually go to Midnight Mass with one family and have Christmas dinner with another--most often the one with the youngest grandchildren.
Merry Christmas, PJ,
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Author PJ Mann shares some tibits about the traditions that surround the Christmas time period and how the holiday rush, rush, rush affects our modern lives. Have a wonderful holiday season everyone! #OurAuthorGang
 
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Ruth de Jauregui

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Awwww, so true! Pretty much all of my shopping was done online (books!) this year, so except for a little baking, I'm pretty much done. Thank you so much for your post today, PJ! Great job!!
 
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Today, PJ Mann - Author​ offers some perspective on the reality of the holiday season compared to the meaning. #OurAuthorGang
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Christmas should be giving, caring, family get together but through the years it turned into a shopping frenzy and competition of who gives more expensive presents. To me, Christmas is a magical time of cozy fires, long talks, watching heartwarming movies with family and friends.
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Points well-taken!
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Friday, December 14, 2018

Book Release: Rainbows and Clouds

New release: a short story collection


Short stories about life’s humorous, happy, and dark moments.
Some of the stories are from my years in nursing, Steve's clumsiness and my cooking disasters might make you spit out your coffee laughing. The stories of my pets will put a warm smile on your face, and the stories about life's darker moments might make you wipe a tear or two.

Rainbows and dark clouds are part of life,
Without darkness, there can be no light.
Without moments that make us cry,
We can’t enjoy moments that make us smile.
Without moments that make us laugh,
We can’t get through moments that make us sad.

Enter the Amazon GIVEAWAY:


Editorial review:
The Rainbows and Clouds by Erika M Szabo is a collection of fun anecdotes, heartwarming stories, and slice-of-life tales that evoke a wide range of emotions. It's impossible to choose a favorite story because I loved them all, particularly the tales that explored the challenges of having a pet. There are several stories within this collection that explore the best - and the worst - of humanity. We are reminded that not everything, or everyone, is what they appear to be and that the best things in life are often surprises. I would absolutely recommend this book to everyone! It truly is something special.
~Tricia Drammeh

TEASERS:
From the story of Mean Streaks:
I used to live in an apartment building, way back when. Working evening shift in the Hospital as a mental health counselor, I usually arrived home around midnight. As I was running up the steps to the barely lit front door I heard a muted cry.
“Ouch!” The voice came from below, close to the concrete steps.
I looked down and saw Daniel, my upstairs neighbor, on his hands and knees. I realized that I didn’t notice him in the dark and stepped on his hand.
“Oh my God! I’m so sorry!” I shouted, feeling remorse building up inside of me, imagining the pain I had caused.
“Yes, Ma’am. No… no problem,” he mumbled in his drunken stupor. “I’m just gonna sit here for a while until my head stops spinning.”
He is drunk as a skunk, again, I thought. I can’t leave him in the middle of the night on the steps.
“Let me help you up and walk you home,” I offered.
“No Ma’am, please!” he begged. “There will be much bodily harm coming to me if I go home now. She will be very angry.” I almost burst out laughing, but then he looked up at me and I saw fear in his eyes.
What could be going on in your house? I thought, alarmed. I recalled seeing him bruised all over many times since I’d moved into the apartment house. I was aware, like everyone else in the building, that occasionally he drank himself into a stupor. After the binge, he stayed sober for weeks at a time. He was the sweetest, most helpful guy in the neighborhood. He was always there when anyone needed their door or dishwasher fixed. We started calling him “golden hands” because there wasn’t anything he couldn’t fix. He always had a smile and a nice word for everyone. I had seen him many times with bruises after his drinking binges, but I always assumed he had fallen when he was drunk. But seeing the fear in his eyes, I started thinking. They seemed to be the perfect couple, but I wonder… He said ‘bodily harm.’ Is she beating him when he’s drunk and can’t defend himself?
Although his wife was friendly with everyone, I had detected some mean streaks in her personality. It occurred to me that I had never seen love in her eyes when she looked at her husband. I only saw calculated and cold glances. People gave her a lot of compliments about Daniel’s “golden hands” and even then, she just nodded coldly.

Continue reading the story:

From the story of Nurse's Voice:
A large man in the ER screamed bloody murder after two nurses tried to insert an IV in his arm and failed. The guy threatened to call his lawyer and sue the hospital. He called the nurses incompetent fools, so, because I was the supervisor on that shift, they called me to deal with the angry man.
I walked into his room, introduced myself and told him, “Sir, I’m going to try to start your IV.”
He yelled, “This hospital is full of ******* idiots! I hope you know what you’re doing!”
I put my nurse’s face on and said in my soothing nurse’s voice to break his foul mood, “Don’t worry, sir, I just watched a video on YouTube and learned how to start IVs.”
The surprised look on his face was priceless and I heard the nurses taking sharp breaths outside the door, ready for another angry eruption.

Continue reading the story:
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Tricia Drammeh

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Congratulations, Erika! This is such a heartwarming, funny, and touching collection of short stories. Having read this, I can recommend it to everyone!
 
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I purchased your book for all the right reasons you brought out in your blurb.  Reading this excerpt confirms that I made the right decision, and look forward to reading it in the New Year.
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Erika M. Szabo​ shares excerpts from her new book, filled with snippets and stories of her real life, on #OurAuthorGangtoday!!
 
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Ruth de Jauregui

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Oh my gosh Erika! The IV story is already priceless, just with that snippet!! Congratulations on putting out another book!
 
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Today, Erika M. Szabo​ shares her new collection of short stories, Rainbows and Clouds. #OurAuthorGangCongratulations, Erika!
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Thank you Toi!

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Thanks for sharing Stephanie :)


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